Today’s problem is from men who want to know why you can only last for ten minutes before ejaculation. So premature ejaculation or PE is one of the most common sexual problems in men. Men who suffer from PE tend to climax in under three minutes with most normal man lasting between seven and a half minutes to twenty minutes. So the 10-minute mark is perfectly average.
There is a whole host of reasons why men suffer from premature ejaculation including lower sex drive, performance anxiety, and early-stage experiences such as having to masturbate quickly for fear of getting caught.
Talking about your anxieties and learning to recognize when the point of no return is can help you deal with PE. If, however, you’ve tried talking it through and nothing’s changed, then there are few other things you could try. A quick Google of the Masters-Johnson technique will show you a method of premature ejaculation control that’s proven to be very effective. It involves bringing yourself almost to the point of orgasm before stopping until you partially lose your erection and then starting over. Now this does take time and patience, but it has proven to be a great way of combating premature ejaculation.
There’s also a plethora of delay sprays and creams that you could try. All packed with desensitizing ingredients to help you last longer in bed. They vary in price with some costing; it’s fantastic value if it saves your sex life.
Sometimes – it’s like if you were caught masturbating as a child or you shared a room with someone, you had to always masturbate quickly to cum, you could be in the habit of trying to rush to an orgasm. And you could be seeing sex as a way to an orgasm instead of seeing sex as a pleasurable experience, as a dance between two people where you can discover like so many different things.
I would also suggest starting with a little bit of sex and then take breaks, like if you’re close to cumming, stop thrusting. Learn your arousal levels and when you get above a seven stop. Do some things to her and stay a lot more focused on her pleasure than just your own. And see if you can start on making your sex sessions last longer or have the woman come first, always, guys, the woman should always come first. If you’re hooking up with the woman, if I hook up with the guy and I don’t come first, I’m never going to hook up with that guy again. That is for sure. I need to come, and I need to come first, and he needs to go down on me.
I’m just like seeing guys, I don’t really care, but when I am choosing a guy, I need to come first, and he needs to turn me on, make it all about me, or I’m out. He’s never coming back again.
I’m sharing that because you’re just having sex with someone is going to like please you, like I do that with men often, that’s something else, but if you want to impress a girl, you got to go down on her good, if she likes that. And you have to make her come first and make it all about her. And believe me, the woman is always going to make it all about you unless she’s some selfish little bitch. Which I think we’re not, we like to please guys.